Recorded Workshops
Cleaning Up Your Mental Mess Around Dating
$67
Dating can feel like a mental and emotional rollercoaster—and often, we don’t even realize the ways our thoughts are draining our hope and confidence.
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If you’ve ever wondered:
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“Why does dating feel so discouraging?”
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“Why do I feel pressure with every single interaction?”
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“Why am I always overthinking or second-guessing myself?”
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…this workshop is for you.
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You’ll learn how to identify the five most common mental and emotional blocks that keep dating from being enjoyable (or fruitful). With the tools we teach, you’ll be able to shift from anxious, pressured, and self-protective to curious, open, and fully present.
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Inside, we’ll cover:
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3 powerful questions to ask yourself before saying yes to another date
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Why dating often feels like so much pressure—and the mindset shift that changes everything
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The one hidden belief making you feel like you’re wasting your time when a date doesn’t lead anywhere
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How to show up with confidence and receptivity, creating space for genuine connection
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How your thought life and hormones can sabotage dating if left unchecked
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"Before finding TIS, I played the blame game with why I wasn't meeting men that I would want to date/why I was not dating.
I have grown to enjoy meeting men and approaching new people with greater curiosity, having open body language, not hiding parts of myself, etc.
Now I realize that going on dates should be fun and not goal-oriented because then I become the pursuer and not the one being pursued. I am also allowing men to take more initiative and trying my hardest to step down and just let them be."
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This workshop will guide you to release the tension and self-protection, step into curiosity and confidence, and start experiencing dating as something life-giving instead of exhausting.
I was definitely emasculating men left and right previously but I didn't know that word and had absolutely no idea what I was doing to them.
I was also scared of them; multiple male family members have anger management issues and I just assumed that all men do. So I guess I thought emasculation was a survival or coping technique for me 🙃
I'm also NOT from an emotionally supportive family so I had absolutely no idea what to expect (other than the worst) from men.
But with TIS, I now think of male-female relationships as more of a dance which is so fun. I also have a new job and, for the first time, I have male colleagues and am interacting with men on a daily basis now and love that they are not at all like my male family members.
I'm definitely enjoying life so much more with this healthier balance.
“I was surprised by how much I didn't know about me. It's a great way to see that we are truly not alone or “behind the curve" if we're in our 30s and still single."
Not making a decision is making a decision 🤯 you guys... I was the worst decision maker!!!
And then I find out I was actually making a decision to not make a decision, the irony in this 😂.
This has really helped to step into the place of asking what I want and then making a decision.
Don't get me wrong, this place is definitely still hard as I would just like to please the other person.... but it's a process right!
The whole Cycle Syncing Workshop and getting into hormones was incredible and so valuable. I want everyone to watch it and learn!!!!!!
It’s been so eye-opening and beautiful discovering all of these insights around my cycle that I was just not informed around/in tune with.
It’s sooooo huge and a total game changer coming into this awareness. I absolutely love what y’all are doing and even just hearing how y’all are going to be diving deeper into this in membership is exciting.
Very grateful to have y’all’s accompaniment and support. Thank you!!!
Before finding TIS, I played the blame game with why I wasn't meeting men that I would want to date/why I was not dating.
I have grown to enjoy meeting men and approaching new people with greater curiosity, having open body language, not hiding parts of myself, etc.
Before I think that I showed up as the leader on the date and I expected this date to turn into a relationship or else the man was wasting my time.
Now I realize that going on dates should be fun and not goal-oriented because then I become the pursuer and not the one being pursued.
I am also allowing men to take more of an initiative and trying my hardest to step down and just let them be. I was also definitely emasculating men.
Now, I am learning to be receptive and opening up the space for a man to pursue me and if they don’t follow through while it hurts it also feels right because it is a clear sign that they aren’t interested instead of thinking like I have to force something.
I am also appreciating and verbalizing to men what I do appreciate about them and what they’re doing right vs before I would look at all the wrong they did.